Safety resources

Safety is not a preference to negotiate away

If a situation involves pressure, threats, stalking, control, or fear, a quiz cannot assess your risk. Consider contacting a trained advocate from a safer device if monitoring is a concern.

US support

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Call 800-799-SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or use live chat for confidential support and personalized safety planning.

Visit the Hotline

US support

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

Free, confidential, 24/7 support in English and Spanish, plus current guidance about consent and sexual violence.

Visit RAINN

Consider a safer device

Internet use can be monitored. If someone may have access to this device, consider using a trusted friend's device, a library device, or another option that is safer for you. Clearing browser history may itself be noticeable.

What this tool does—and does not do

Protected questions can never enter Flex. That is a content safeguard, not a safety assessment. The test cannot evaluate danger, document abuse, provide emergency help, or tell you whether to stay or leave. A trained advocate can help build a plan around your circumstances.